I've put up this page in an effort to answer a few questions. I hope you find it helpful in understanding how communication comes to be.

A question that I'm often asked is:

"How are you able to talk to the dead?"

I'm sure you are all familiar with telepathy, the communication of minds brought about by thought transference. I'm sure you've also heard of two people that are so close that they are often aware of what the other is thinking. It's probably happened to you yourself on many occasions. Communication with another mind, or 'spirit' in this case, is brought about entirely by:

• * The opening of psychic channels, carried out by the medium with the help of higher spiritual beings, (known as guides), that work with and assist the medium,
• thought transference (the communication from the spirit to the medium),and
• mind and thought manipulation, controlled by the medium and spiritual helpers. This allows an interpretation of the communication taking place.

I might be asked:

"How come my dad came through today but not at the psychic fair last week?"

The only explanation is that the conditions at that time were not right, i.e. perhaps the medium just could not interpret what was being passed through due to a heavy, negative atmosphere or maybe even the spirit himself was unable to 'penetrate' the atmosphere in order to allow for such communication to take place. Another problem which can hinder a sitting can be fear or anxiety brought about by the sitter. Many people new to sittings are very apprehensive, even frightened and unsure of what to expect. It is very important to be relaxed during a sitting as while the medium is concerned about your well-being, she will not be able to concentrate on what she's doing.       

Another thing that must be remembered is this:

A spirit does not have a voice box and does not physically utter words. A medium does not hear a word-by-word account of a sentence, but instead experiences a 'feeling' which is the human interpretation of one long thought transference. The medium will then pass on this interpretation to the sitter.

Here are a few examples of possible thought transferences
and how they could be interpreted

Intended message:

"Tell him I was with him yesterday when he broke his tooth."

Possible interpretation:

"She was with you the other day when you had a toothache".
      
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Intended message:

"She looks great since she started that diet".

Possible interpretation:

"Have you just lost some weight because he says you look a lot better".

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Intended message:

"Her grandmother has left her the house and a lot of money in her will"

Possible interpretation:

"Your gran has left you very well provided for in her will". ......................

Intended message:

"The keys are in the drawer by the umbrella stand in the hall"

Possible interpretation:

"Have you just lost some keys and an umbrella? These things are connected in some way".

Sitter:

"No, I lost my keys but my umbrella is in the stand at home".

Medium:

"Is there a drawer by the umbrella stand? Check because the keys could be there". ......................